How to Select the Right Weight for Your Exercise and When to Go Heavier
Question: "How do I select a weight for an exercise and when should I go up?"
We get this question literally everyday. The answer is simple yet nuanced.
Selecting the proper weight for an exercise comes down to this hierarchy of variables:
- Define Your Goal
- How focused am I today?
- Master the Technique
- Does it hurt?
- Consider the Rep Range
Define Your Goal
The first step in selecting the right weight is to clearly define your goal for the workout. Are you learning new movements, aiming for strength, improving your endurance, building power, or a combination of these? Different goals require different weight selections, so understanding your objective is crucial.
How focused am I today?
Any given day, you may feel focused, driven, and enthused to accomplish great expressions of strength and athleticism. Other days, you might feel tired, distracted, or stressed. Recognize your state of mind and make choices accordingly. Feeling awesome? Go big. Feeling preoccupied? Take it easy.
Master the Technique
When you're learning a new movement, be conservative in your weight selection but not too conservative. You'll want something weighty enough that you feel the target muscle groups but not so heavy that you can't control yourself.
Commit to mastery and lean in to the learning. Learning is cool. Be coachable. Be humble. Be proud of your progress and encourage others to do the same. Share the stoke.
How you do anything is how you do everything.
Does it hurt?
Pay attention to how your body feels while you're moving and how it feels immediately after a set. What do you feel and where do you feel it? Every exercise has a purpose and target muscle group. Are you feeling it in the right place? Does it hurt?
If it hurts, stop. It's crucial to reevaluate your technique, your weight selection, and if there is something wrong. Pain is a neurological signal that you should stop the exercise - immediately. Pushing through pain will lead to injuries that will sideline you from training or life in general. Be mindful of your body's signals and make adjustments accordingly.
Consider the Rep Range
Most of our programs include a Set and Rep Scheme with a target number of sets and repetitions. The repetitions are frequently listed in a range of 5-8, 8-12, or 12-16. Generally, the goal is to select a weight that is light enough to perform the low end of the range but too heavy to perform the top number.
Let me stress: Do work with pain-free perfect form feeling the exercise in the target muscle group(s).
Here is an example: your program calls for 3 sets of 8-12 Bench Dumbbell Chest Presses. On your first set, you do 12 perfect pain-free chest presses. Could you do 1 or 2 more? If yes, add weight the very next set (not next time you do this card). How much weight? What weight do you think you could only do 9 reps? That's the new weight. Trial and error works great until you find that magic weight you can do more than 8 but less than 12.
The protocol going forward is to attempt to do more repetitions until you achieve the top number of the range. When you do, it's time to go up again. Repeat.
Of course there are exceptions to this. Re-read numbers 1, 2, 3, and 4.
Conclusion
Selecting the right weight involves a thoughtful consideration of your goals, the focus of the day's workout, your mastery of technique, listening to your body, and adherence to the recommended rep range. By paying attention to these factors and gradually progressing as your fitness improves, you'll optimize your weightlifting experience and achieve the results you desire.
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